We are wrapping up the 2014-2015 school year.
This time of year drives me crazy! My kids are ready for summer but I'm stuck wrapping up the school and looking towards planning the coming school year.
So I decided to take a few minutes and really honor the school year we completed.
The one lesson that really stuck with me this year (even though I knew it!) children move at their own pace. Just because text book, program, and even a child expert says your child "should be" doing something by a certain age, doesn't mean every child is READY to be doing that particular thing.
This clearly came worth with my very stubborn 3rd child. She is kindergarten and so naturally she should be reading. Actually, because we homeschool, common school of thought is she should have been reading a year ago. So we dove into the program I spent hours researching and knew it was the "best" fit for her. However, after two months of butting heads - I had to admit she wasn't ready. So I put the books aside and just enjoyed her! Enjoyed her creativity, her spunk, and her just being 5! Shortly after Christmas, she initiated the want to read and we picked the program back up. The pieces are falling more easily in place.
The same came through with my oldest son with Algebra 1. While he can do the work, he is requiring a lot of coaching. It is very clear, the concepts aren't cementing and we need to spend another year on the material. So we (yes, him, his father, and myself) made the decision to spend another year with Algebra 1.
My second lesson I learned this year - was don't be afraid to change it up! One of the motto's I keep hearing within the homeschooling circles is "Keep it Simple!" I realized, we need to make it more simple for our family. I had a real conversation with our kids about what they liked and what they didn't like. My oldest shared he didn't care for Scholastic News and wanted to switch to a Math or Science magazine. My oldest daughter told me weekly Scholastic News overwhelmed her, while she enjoyed the reading would rather switch to a monthly or quarterly magazine. So I'm changing it up - I've also decided that have 3 kids doing 3 different levels of Social Studies and Art isn't going to work for our household. We are making it simple with one program and then activity work will be grade/age appropriate.
My third lesson this year that I truly learned was not all learning takes place in a classroom, from a textbook, or perfectly designed study. I've been amazed at what my children have learned from just being let loose in the library! Just being allowed to pursue their own interests or follow up on interesting facts they have come across. Due to this (and a talk I heard at our home school conference), we are completely changing up Social Studies and Literature studies for my oldest two children.
I know I'm suppose to be teaching my children, but truly I think they are schooling me in a lesson or two!
Friday, June 5, 2015
Monday, March 9, 2015
The Gift of a Meal
Having 4 babies, I've been given quite the variety of gifts after a baby has been born.
Wanna know my favorite? The ones I remember and still to this day wanna give that person a hug for?
A meal.
Yes, a simple meal have been the most appreciated gift. Having a friend arrive at my door with a pan of food that I didn't have to plan, shop for, and prepare; is a blessing beyond measure! Especially when you are recovering from child birth, running on no sleep, figuring out this whole breast feeding thing, and finding the new "balance" in your household.
However, I'm often surprised how many of my friends have shared they decline to bring meals because often their family eats frozen pizza while another family eats like a king! Bring a family a meal doesn't have to a production and for me it no more than doubling what I'm already making that night.
So how does one make a great meal for two households?
First, have a couple of go to recipes that are quick, simple, and double easily. This runs seasonally
(fall and winter tend to be soups, while spring and summer casseroles or noodle dishes). These are my go to, I've perfected them and don't have to think twice about them.
I usually contact the person a week to week half before bring the meal so I can plan my shopping and look at my calendar. I try to find a day where my day isn't crazy busy so I know I will have the time to cook a meal and have time for the extras (side dishes, bread, and dessert)
However, some weeks just get away from me! Kids get sick, events come up that I didn't plan on, or we are in a busy season and I still have a family waiting for a meal! I've also got a back up plan for that as well!!
Swing by Costco for a Rotisserie Chicken, make up a quick side dish of green bean casserole, salad and bread. If your *really* are tight for time Costco pizza and salad can be dropped off as well! It is not fancy but it will feed everyone and will be one less meal for that new mama to worry about!
I've come to the conclusion dessert is not required but it a nice "extra". I have a go to No Bake Peanut Butter Bar (http://www.sixsistersstuff.com/2012/03/easy-no-bake-peanut-butter-bars.html). I usually have the ingredients needed on hand, I can whip this up ahead of time (like the weekend), and it stays nicely in the freezer! However, if for some reason that doesn't happen, I've been know to show up with a bucket of ice cream or fun ice cream bars you wouldn't normally buy!
Two of my friends were in very busy seasons of their lives when my babies came along but still wanted to do something productive as a baby gift. One dropped off paper plates, silverware, and cups for our family to use during "survival mode" and another simply dropped off a gift card to a local grocery store, where I was able to pick up some prepared hot food for a meal. Both were a simply but a practical blessing!
I think the key for this to be success is to keep things simple! Most likely this family is in survival mode, simply having a meal given is a amazing blessing!
Wanna know my favorite? The ones I remember and still to this day wanna give that person a hug for?
A meal.
Yes, a simple meal have been the most appreciated gift. Having a friend arrive at my door with a pan of food that I didn't have to plan, shop for, and prepare; is a blessing beyond measure! Especially when you are recovering from child birth, running on no sleep, figuring out this whole breast feeding thing, and finding the new "balance" in your household.
However, I'm often surprised how many of my friends have shared they decline to bring meals because often their family eats frozen pizza while another family eats like a king! Bring a family a meal doesn't have to a production and for me it no more than doubling what I'm already making that night.
So how does one make a great meal for two households?
First, have a couple of go to recipes that are quick, simple, and double easily. This runs seasonally
(fall and winter tend to be soups, while spring and summer casseroles or noodle dishes). These are my go to, I've perfected them and don't have to think twice about them.
I usually contact the person a week to week half before bring the meal so I can plan my shopping and look at my calendar. I try to find a day where my day isn't crazy busy so I know I will have the time to cook a meal and have time for the extras (side dishes, bread, and dessert)
However, some weeks just get away from me! Kids get sick, events come up that I didn't plan on, or we are in a busy season and I still have a family waiting for a meal! I've also got a back up plan for that as well!!
Swing by Costco for a Rotisserie Chicken, make up a quick side dish of green bean casserole, salad and bread. If your *really* are tight for time Costco pizza and salad can be dropped off as well! It is not fancy but it will feed everyone and will be one less meal for that new mama to worry about!
I've come to the conclusion dessert is not required but it a nice "extra". I have a go to No Bake Peanut Butter Bar (http://www.sixsistersstuff.com/2012/03/easy-no-bake-peanut-butter-bars.html). I usually have the ingredients needed on hand, I can whip this up ahead of time (like the weekend), and it stays nicely in the freezer! However, if for some reason that doesn't happen, I've been know to show up with a bucket of ice cream or fun ice cream bars you wouldn't normally buy!
Two of my friends were in very busy seasons of their lives when my babies came along but still wanted to do something productive as a baby gift. One dropped off paper plates, silverware, and cups for our family to use during "survival mode" and another simply dropped off a gift card to a local grocery store, where I was able to pick up some prepared hot food for a meal. Both were a simply but a practical blessing!
I think the key for this to be success is to keep things simple! Most likely this family is in survival mode, simply having a meal given is a amazing blessing!
Wednesday, January 21, 2015
I said "No" (and stuck to my guns!!!)
Since starting homeschooling, I've come to realize my time is valuable but also limited.
I recieved a phone call our parish shortly after Christmas (like when we were on break and spending our days sleeping and playing!) asking if I would be able to bake for a upcoming event.
"Of course, I could!" I replied happily and basked in the warm fuzzes you get when you volunteer. Then I went back to playing and having all kinds of Christmas fun!
Fast forward three weeks, I'm going over what needs to happen today and Princess pops up and says, "Tonight is that parish events, aren't you suppose to bring 3 dozen cookies?"
Ummmmm......yes....
Now to find the 2 hours it will take to make cookies (I get, I could have stopped by the store but the request was for homemade cookies).
And then the clean up for these 3 dozens cookies (actually 4 dozens because there would be a small uprising if I didn't leave some for the peanut gallery).
So when did I end up doing the cookies, during the baby's two hour nap. The only two hour nap she had decided to take all week. Everything else that needed to get done (laundry, cleaning, going through the mail, and crossing some items off my to do list) sat on the side lines.
I get it, I did a good thing for my parish but it really stressed me out and made me feel a little further behind than I wanted to.
We were at the girls American Heritage Girl meeting and they had a sign up for a upcoming event. We are unable to attend event since we will be out of town (I thought case closed) but then the leader announced if you are unable to attend you can bring 3 dozen baked goods. Which Princess was more than happy to volunteer for (which translates into afternoon of ME baking with the 10 year old)!
I looked at the calendar, we were leaving that Friday evening out of town. The night before the Boy, has a out of town basketball game and the week is pretty full (not to mention I need to get 6 people ready to get out of town!)
I told her, "No" -
She begged and pleaded and stated she could use the service hours.
Then I explained to Princess we simply do not have the time needed to commit to this project. There will be other service opportunities and we will act on those when it fits better in our schedule.
And then we walked away and it was such a relief!
I need to use the word, "no" more often!
I recieved a phone call our parish shortly after Christmas (like when we were on break and spending our days sleeping and playing!) asking if I would be able to bake for a upcoming event.
"Of course, I could!" I replied happily and basked in the warm fuzzes you get when you volunteer. Then I went back to playing and having all kinds of Christmas fun!
Fast forward three weeks, I'm going over what needs to happen today and Princess pops up and says, "Tonight is that parish events, aren't you suppose to bring 3 dozen cookies?"
Ummmmm......yes....
Now to find the 2 hours it will take to make cookies (I get, I could have stopped by the store but the request was for homemade cookies).
And then the clean up for these 3 dozens cookies (actually 4 dozens because there would be a small uprising if I didn't leave some for the peanut gallery).
So when did I end up doing the cookies, during the baby's two hour nap. The only two hour nap she had decided to take all week. Everything else that needed to get done (laundry, cleaning, going through the mail, and crossing some items off my to do list) sat on the side lines.
I get it, I did a good thing for my parish but it really stressed me out and made me feel a little further behind than I wanted to.
We were at the girls American Heritage Girl meeting and they had a sign up for a upcoming event. We are unable to attend event since we will be out of town (I thought case closed) but then the leader announced if you are unable to attend you can bring 3 dozen baked goods. Which Princess was more than happy to volunteer for (which translates into afternoon of ME baking with the 10 year old)!
I looked at the calendar, we were leaving that Friday evening out of town. The night before the Boy, has a out of town basketball game and the week is pretty full (not to mention I need to get 6 people ready to get out of town!)
I told her, "No" -
She begged and pleaded and stated she could use the service hours.
Then I explained to Princess we simply do not have the time needed to commit to this project. There will be other service opportunities and we will act on those when it fits better in our schedule.
And then we walked away and it was such a relief!
I need to use the word, "no" more often!
Saturday, January 17, 2015
Why I'm Against Anti-Bullying Curriculum
So passing through life when the odd comment was made to me about how homeschooling was great, but they do lose things like anti-bullying curriculum.
Wait...WHAT???
I really shook my head at that one because really, if my children enter into the adult work force and a co-worker pushes them to the ground, well they can have that co-worker arrested. If a co-worker is verbally abusive and knocks their lunch tray out of their hands, there are HR policies that will back them. Not to mention, I don't know many people going around complaining of co-workers acting in this matter. My children will have far greater legal recourse and HR policies in their favor dealing with a bully as a adult, then ever as a child at school.
But that isn't the soap box I wanted to get on.....
The soap box I want to get on is why I don't think Anti-Bullying programs work!
My children were in the overpriced Catholic school that went full force with Anti-Bullying curriculum. As a parent this is how the program was presented to me as a parent:
Generous donor has made it possible for us to enrich our anti-bullying program. We are sending home t-shirts to all students, please have them wear on give day.
The note went on to say the other parts of the program where posters being displayed, lots of talking about including and being a bucket filler, and several speakers coming into the classroom.
Here is the deal - I'm a parent but I'm also a educator so I've spent A LOT of time with children both inside and outside the classroom. I will tell you, my kids who were bullies all had the same things in common.
1. They came from unstable homes
2. Their parents were uninterested or spent very little time with them
3. They were exposed to media material that was far beyond their age or reason
The kids who were victims where always the same kids:
1. Came from stable homes
2. Had involved parents
3. Child had a strong sense of justice, right, and wrong.
No amount of work coming from the classroom was going to change a child acting out to seek attention and fulfillment. A child need for love and safety has to come from the home. A child's need for attention and confidence has to come from loving parents who see their children as priority!
While there has always been bullies, they seem to be coming out in a great numbers now. Why? Simply put our families are in complete turmoil! Many put material items above their children, so you see both parents working outside the home. You see divorced or single parents, who can't or chose not invest in their children. Its our children paying the price and its this brokenness that they will carry with them into adulthood.
What we need is not anti-bullying programs but pro-family programs. We need parents to understand that every minute invested in their child in not lost! That i-phones will be a passing fad but you only have one chance to mold this child. Rising a child in a two parent marriage will offer more benefit than anyone is willing to admit right now. As a society admit what we already know, children need their parents because the lack of parents, leaves them lost. Leaves a child bitter and mean. Leaves a child looking for empowerment and attention in all the wrong places.
Wait...WHAT???
I really shook my head at that one because really, if my children enter into the adult work force and a co-worker pushes them to the ground, well they can have that co-worker arrested. If a co-worker is verbally abusive and knocks their lunch tray out of their hands, there are HR policies that will back them. Not to mention, I don't know many people going around complaining of co-workers acting in this matter. My children will have far greater legal recourse and HR policies in their favor dealing with a bully as a adult, then ever as a child at school.
But that isn't the soap box I wanted to get on.....
The soap box I want to get on is why I don't think Anti-Bullying programs work!
My children were in the overpriced Catholic school that went full force with Anti-Bullying curriculum. As a parent this is how the program was presented to me as a parent:
Generous donor has made it possible for us to enrich our anti-bullying program. We are sending home t-shirts to all students, please have them wear on give day.
The note went on to say the other parts of the program where posters being displayed, lots of talking about including and being a bucket filler, and several speakers coming into the classroom.
Here is the deal - I'm a parent but I'm also a educator so I've spent A LOT of time with children both inside and outside the classroom. I will tell you, my kids who were bullies all had the same things in common.
1. They came from unstable homes
2. Their parents were uninterested or spent very little time with them
3. They were exposed to media material that was far beyond their age or reason
The kids who were victims where always the same kids:
1. Came from stable homes
2. Had involved parents
3. Child had a strong sense of justice, right, and wrong.
No amount of work coming from the classroom was going to change a child acting out to seek attention and fulfillment. A child need for love and safety has to come from the home. A child's need for attention and confidence has to come from loving parents who see their children as priority!
While there has always been bullies, they seem to be coming out in a great numbers now. Why? Simply put our families are in complete turmoil! Many put material items above their children, so you see both parents working outside the home. You see divorced or single parents, who can't or chose not invest in their children. Its our children paying the price and its this brokenness that they will carry with them into adulthood.
What we need is not anti-bullying programs but pro-family programs. We need parents to understand that every minute invested in their child in not lost! That i-phones will be a passing fad but you only have one chance to mold this child. Rising a child in a two parent marriage will offer more benefit than anyone is willing to admit right now. As a society admit what we already know, children need their parents because the lack of parents, leaves them lost. Leaves a child bitter and mean. Leaves a child looking for empowerment and attention in all the wrong places.
Monday, January 12, 2015
Do You Want Fries With That??
"Do you want fries with that?"
"Yes, yes I would! And a large box of chocolate, please!!!"
Ok - today was one of those "rough" homeschooling days. The ones we don't really talk about. The ones that if we actually talked about, our family and friends (who aren't convinced homeschooling is the best option) will point to why I should put my children into "normal" school.
We did Iowa Testing for the week before Christmas and once we were done I promptly declared, "We were done for Christmas BREAK!!". When we were suppose to start back up, we ended up traveling for a funeral so that shot last week. Now its Monday, the second week and January and we HAVE TO JUMP BACK INTO SCHOOL!!
5:30 am - a cold toddler climbs into my bed and kicks me in the face
7:00 am - my alarm goes off I hit the off button
8:00 am - Tinkerbell comes into my room asking if she has Good Shepard today. I'm reminded that:
1. We missed daily mass
2. It is truly Monday and I shouldn't have ignored my alarm
8:15 am - come downstairs to realize my big kids are up, chores aren't done, and they are looking for the remote.
8:16 - 9:15 am - follow children around reminding them what their chores are, that they are fully capable of doing assigned chores.
9:15 - 9:45 am - Take Tinkerbell to Good Shepard and drive home.
10:00 am - Start school
10:00 - 11:25 - Sit with two older children. Remind them we really do school, at home, and that work is required of them. Also try to figure out where we left off from break and refresh where needed.
11:26-12 - Leave and pick up Tinkerbell and come home.
12:05-12:30 - LUNCH
12:31 to 4:00 - Continue to sit with children. Reminding them we really do school....at home...and work is required of them. Its painful......
I make them read assigned pages out loud because I *know* they wouldn't read it otherwise (it would be lets sit here, turn pages, day dream, and write things in the blanks that make NO SENSE! Mom won't find out until she grades and which point they will ACTUALLY have to read it) I was saving us all the headache - promise!
I. GOT. NOTHING. ELSE. DONE!
No laundry -
No cleaning -
No putting the Christmas boxes away -
Nothing but sitting on children to make sure work ACTUALLY got done.
4:35 pm - Text from husband, "Done with work pick me up anytime".
4:45 pm - Get into the car and go pick up husband.
When we pulled into the driveway my husband asks what is for supper (totally normal question). However, he is meet with a blank stare. The voice inside my head is screaming, "WHAT!!!! YOU EXPECT TO KEEP 4 KIDS ALIVE, EDUCATED, NOT BURN THE HOUSE DOWN, AND FEED YOU?!?!?"
But I don't say anything, instead I sit there looking at the birds flying over our house.
I tell my husband I'm stressed paralyzed (yes its a thing - watch "Mom's Night Out!")
So my loving husband does what any sane man would do, "Do you want burgers or subs for supper?"
The peanut gallery (e.i the kids) vote for subs.
We ended up with burgers.
It was just one of those days - so yes, I will take fries and a big box of chocolate with that burger!
Friday, January 9, 2015
New Year's Resolutions off to a Rough Start....
So one of my New Year's Resolutions was to do the 52 weeks to an organized homeschool.
The first week was daily devotions and I thought easy enough, get everyone to daily mass. Its a nice start to our day, makes sure everyone is up, dressed, and ready for the day.
And then life hit.......
My husband's grandmother passed away so what was suppose to be our first day back from Christmas break, we sat in a Lutheran Church at a funeral. Then drove 6 hours home so Tuesday we were physically and emotionally drained (which means no school happened). The weekend I was going to spend prepping for the upcoming semester was lost in preparing to attend the funeral and traveling.
I did have the pie in the sky dream we would be able to take school work with us and would be able to attend mass. However, the small town my husband's grandmother lived in did not have daily mass. The math I brought went untouched ( I know you are you as surprised as I am - inserting sarcasm) and the -45 wind chills made playing outside (burning off all that energy!) not possible. It was a difficult couple of days to say the least.
However we did listen to two audio books and my kids did a lot of reading during the down time (I've got a take a win where I can get it!).
Then Wednesday and Thursday came with continued unsafe windchills which I wasn't going to take the kids out in. So I came to the realization while I love the idea of taking the kids to daily mass for a daily devotion it isn't going to happen as planned.
So instead I order Saints for Young Readers Vol. 1
The new goal is to ead out of that every morning. If we can safely make it to mass, GREAT but if not we will have some devotion ready for the start of our day. At least its a plan in place!
Amazon Link to the book -
(http://www.amazon.com/Saints-Young-Readers-Every-Vol/dp/0819870811)
The first week was daily devotions and I thought easy enough, get everyone to daily mass. Its a nice start to our day, makes sure everyone is up, dressed, and ready for the day.
And then life hit.......
My husband's grandmother passed away so what was suppose to be our first day back from Christmas break, we sat in a Lutheran Church at a funeral. Then drove 6 hours home so Tuesday we were physically and emotionally drained (which means no school happened). The weekend I was going to spend prepping for the upcoming semester was lost in preparing to attend the funeral and traveling.
I did have the pie in the sky dream we would be able to take school work with us and would be able to attend mass. However, the small town my husband's grandmother lived in did not have daily mass. The math I brought went untouched ( I know you are you as surprised as I am - inserting sarcasm) and the -45 wind chills made playing outside (burning off all that energy!) not possible. It was a difficult couple of days to say the least.
Then Wednesday and Thursday came with continued unsafe windchills which I wasn't going to take the kids out in. So I came to the realization while I love the idea of taking the kids to daily mass for a daily devotion it isn't going to happen as planned.
The new goal is to ead out of that every morning. If we can safely make it to mass, GREAT but if not we will have some devotion ready for the start of our day. At least its a plan in place!
Amazon Link to the book -
(http://www.amazon.com/Saints-Young-Readers-Every-Vol/dp/0819870811)
Tuesday, January 6, 2015
Open Letter Addressing to The Lady Sitting Behind Me at Mass
Dear Women
Sitting Behind Us At Mass,
It was so
good to see you at mass. Father gave a good homily and the readings were
touching as well. However, the comment you made (quite loudly) when my husband
removed our two year old, "You should have removed that child an hour
ago!"
Makes me believe you were focused on something else - my 2 year
old.
Here the
problem with your opinion - if I removed my daughter an hour ago she wouldn't
have attended mass. Frankly, shame on you for thinking the littlest of God's
flock doesn't deserve to be in his presence.
We could
hang out in the cry room but that is just encouraging poor behavior. Have you
been in there lately? Many parents go in there and just check out. My experience has been kids running everywhere
and no one is really engaged. However, if it’s good enough for my family, you
are certainly welcome to enjoy mass from that location in the church.
I'm trying
really hard to raise good Catholic kids. I want my children to understand their
faith, be active in it and be engaged. I can't wait to start this process when
they are 10; it starts now. Would it be fair to her older siblings if we took
your advice (she is the youngest of 4, mind you) and removed all of them from mass? Should all my children
simply not attend mass until they are 18 and can behave adult like?
But wait,
if I do that, I've lost all those impressionable years and then you won't see
them in the pews.
Since you’re
sitting in the pew, I'm going to assume you understand that children are the
fruit of marriage. They are a blessing from God and should be celebrated!
What you may not realize is children come in raw form, so give us a little more time to keep molding
her (patients is a virtual you know!).
Who knows,
you may be looking at a future Saint!
Sincerely,
The Catholic
Mom in the Trenches Sitting in Front of You
Why We Love Our Kindles!
I'm a English major and from a early age I had a passion for reading!
This is something I've tried very hard to pass onto my children.
However, if you want children to read - you must give them high quality
literature and lots of reading material!!
I fought continually with the school my children were at about getting into their hands good literature and using their library time effectively! My oldest child's goal, when he went to the school library was to find the biggest and largest book to check out. Our librarian never gave suggestions, helped kids find good books at their reading level, or any of those wonderful things you should do to encourage young readers!
So when we began homeschooling, I knew one of my goals for our school was getting good literature in my kids hands. Since we are small in space and I don't have a unlimited budget, I used the library a lot. We would haul big stacks of books home and audio books; then we would read away!
Then winter hit.....
Our first winter homeschooling was cold and it snowed a lot! Jan and February we spent the entire two months in negative digits and our library was closed "due to weather" more days than it was open. The few days it was open, frankly it was too cold to haul kiddos out (not to mention if the car would even start!). I was struggling to get any literature into my kiddos hands and they were eating through our library several times over. Then Amazon ran a great deal on Kindles so I decided we would give them a try. I have to say, I really enjoy having them as part of our homeschooling tools.
Reasons Why We Like Our Kindles
1. Easy of getting materials!
Our library has a large selection of digital materials. A couple of clicks and my kids have new reading material in their hands! I don't have to leave the house, haul to the library, and pay for parking!
2. No LATE FEES!!!
I think late fee are the bane of all homeschooling moms! I know some moms have a line item in their budget for library late fees! Our library doesn't charge late fees for digital books! That is some serious savings!!
3. The Reduced Cost of Books
If the library doesn't have the book my child wants to read (either in digital or paperback) and they REALLY want to read it, I've enjoyed most digital titles are at a reduced cost vs. buying them off the shelve. When you got readers (myself included) those $3-$5 saving adds up fast!
4. Space!!
We are limited on space around here - so buying a stack of books means they get read and then sit piled on the bookshelves. Yes, piled because our bookshelves are already full (and then some) and since we don't have room for more book selves, they go where we can find room. With digital books, they aren't piled around.
5. One book - Multiple Readers
Since all our e-reader devices are linked to the same account, I purchase one book and both my older kids can read it at the same time. No more fighting over books, yelling to "hurry up and read", and the whining that the current reader "reads to slow!".
6. Audio Books
Again, we are really lucky our library has a pretty good selection of digital audio books. So a couple clicks and downloaded book (with no skips or scratch CD) is a really nice perk!
I will close with not all the books my children like to read are available via digital format so we currently do a mix of paper and digital. I personally feel this is a good balance as there is mixed research on digital reading.
Is digital reader apart of your homeschool tools? Loved to hear if others have enjoyed (or disliked it!)
I fought continually with the school my children were at about getting into their hands good literature and using their library time effectively! My oldest child's goal, when he went to the school library was to find the biggest and largest book to check out. Our librarian never gave suggestions, helped kids find good books at their reading level, or any of those wonderful things you should do to encourage young readers!
So when we began homeschooling, I knew one of my goals for our school was getting good literature in my kids hands. Since we are small in space and I don't have a unlimited budget, I used the library a lot. We would haul big stacks of books home and audio books; then we would read away!
Then winter hit.....
Our first winter homeschooling was cold and it snowed a lot! Jan and February we spent the entire two months in negative digits and our library was closed "due to weather" more days than it was open. The few days it was open, frankly it was too cold to haul kiddos out (not to mention if the car would even start!). I was struggling to get any literature into my kiddos hands and they were eating through our library several times over. Then Amazon ran a great deal on Kindles so I decided we would give them a try. I have to say, I really enjoy having them as part of our homeschooling tools.
Reasons Why We Like Our Kindles
1. Easy of getting materials!
Our library has a large selection of digital materials. A couple of clicks and my kids have new reading material in their hands! I don't have to leave the house, haul to the library, and pay for parking!
2. No LATE FEES!!!
I think late fee are the bane of all homeschooling moms! I know some moms have a line item in their budget for library late fees! Our library doesn't charge late fees for digital books! That is some serious savings!!
3. The Reduced Cost of Books
If the library doesn't have the book my child wants to read (either in digital or paperback) and they REALLY want to read it, I've enjoyed most digital titles are at a reduced cost vs. buying them off the shelve. When you got readers (myself included) those $3-$5 saving adds up fast!
4. Space!!
We are limited on space around here - so buying a stack of books means they get read and then sit piled on the bookshelves. Yes, piled because our bookshelves are already full (and then some) and since we don't have room for more book selves, they go where we can find room. With digital books, they aren't piled around.
5. One book - Multiple Readers
Since all our e-reader devices are linked to the same account, I purchase one book and both my older kids can read it at the same time. No more fighting over books, yelling to "hurry up and read", and the whining that the current reader "reads to slow!".
6. Audio Books
Again, we are really lucky our library has a pretty good selection of digital audio books. So a couple clicks and downloaded book (with no skips or scratch CD) is a really nice perk!
I will close with not all the books my children like to read are available via digital format so we currently do a mix of paper and digital. I personally feel this is a good balance as there is mixed research on digital reading.
Is digital reader apart of your homeschool tools? Loved to hear if others have enjoyed (or disliked it!)
Sunday, January 4, 2015
Detour in the Kitchen
I fully had intended to write a post about my famous Carmel Corn Popcorn.
Its good, like really good and doesn't last long in our house.
My husband asked a few weeks ago if I would be willing to bake some up for a work social he was having. I agreed and was more than happy to shine like the domestic diva I would prefer the world to see me as ;)
Anyway, you need to flip the popcorn every 15 minutes for an hour so I waited until the kids went to bed and started baking up the batch. The first 15 minutes went smoothly, I flipped the batch and set the timer for the second 15 minutes. Then I sat down on the sofa with my husband. Between watching Dr. Who, talking, and convincing #4 she truely does need to sleep, I didn't hear the timer. By the time I smelled the popcorn this is what greeted me when I opened the oven. Two cookie sheets on burned Carmel Corn.
I could have cried and considering it was 11 pm at night, I had enough
sense to know I wasn't going to be starting a new batch. I also know
myself well enough that the words "getting up early" don't fit well in
my vocabulary.
I known my pride was wounded. I like to think I can pull it all off and make it look effortless but in reality, I can't. Often, when trying to pull off that grand event, craft, or extra special something in the kitchen; something always suffers. Its a balance and sometimes a ball gets dropped (or a timer doesn't get heard) . Best laid plans go stray and sometimes the popcorn gets burnt but I guess on the flip side, I was nice to visit my hubby and nothing cooler than Dr. Who.
The next morning I was able to whip up a cake with amazing frosting. However, it was simple and not complex but the request for a dessert was fulfilled.
Maybe another day I will be able to post about my amazing Carmel Corn Popcorn.......
Its good, like really good and doesn't last long in our house.
My husband asked a few weeks ago if I would be willing to bake some up for a work social he was having. I agreed and was more than happy to shine like the domestic diva I would prefer the world to see me as ;)
Anyway, you need to flip the popcorn every 15 minutes for an hour so I waited until the kids went to bed and started baking up the batch. The first 15 minutes went smoothly, I flipped the batch and set the timer for the second 15 minutes. Then I sat down on the sofa with my husband. Between watching Dr. Who, talking, and convincing #4 she truely does need to sleep, I didn't hear the timer. By the time I smelled the popcorn this is what greeted me when I opened the oven. Two cookie sheets on burned Carmel Corn.
I known my pride was wounded. I like to think I can pull it all off and make it look effortless but in reality, I can't. Often, when trying to pull off that grand event, craft, or extra special something in the kitchen; something always suffers. Its a balance and sometimes a ball gets dropped (or a timer doesn't get heard) . Best laid plans go stray and sometimes the popcorn gets burnt but I guess on the flip side, I was nice to visit my hubby and nothing cooler than Dr. Who.
The next morning I was able to whip up a cake with amazing frosting. However, it was simple and not complex but the request for a dessert was fulfilled.
Maybe another day I will be able to post about my amazing Carmel Corn Popcorn.......
Saturday, January 3, 2015
House Keeping, Babysitting and Deja Vu
It is funny how things can come back to haunt you! Here is a funny tale for you:
In a land far, far away there was a teen age girl who was slightly hard up for cash (what teenager isn't?) and received a call from a neighbor who had 4 children. This sweet neighbor was begging said teen age girl to come over a babysit! Now, teenage girl wasn't thrilled but the need for cash won and she walked over.
The neighbor and her husband ran for the door and the teenager was in charge. She went to work getting supper for the kids and couldn't believe there was burnt Mac'n Cheese was on the stove! Who burns Mac'n Cheese! After feeding the kids, the next step was putting them all to bed. The house was a maze of clothes, toys, and random piles of stuff. The dog wouldn't stop barking and the kids seemed to be boucing off the walls.
After the kids had been settled down to bed, the dog let back in which stopped the barking (but lead to a dog running everywhere!) the teenager said the following things:
1. Who in their right mind would have a kid, let alone 4 kids!!
2. Her house would never be this messy!
3. She would never have a dog!
4. She would never burn such a simple meal Mac'n Cheese
And then this little teenager settled on the sofa reading a book and passing the hours until midnight.
Now, let's fast forward 15 years, I will reveal said teenager is me. It had been nearly year since my husband and I had a real date (shopping for Christmas presents and Easter baskets doesn't count!). There was this really cool movie out called "Mom's Night Out" and I really wanted to see it! I called our teenage sitter begging her to come over and watch the kids! And then that is when deja vu hit me!!
See, I had 4 kids running wild through the house, 1 extremely ill behaved dog, and while begging the sitter to come I may have burnt lunch (which wasn't Mac'n Cheese but it would have been total poetic justice if I had!)
Also my sideboard may have looked like this:
My bath tub may have looked like this: (That is dog paws, tooth brush, and a few items that are suppose to be in tub)
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And it goes without saying the piles of clothes, toys, and other "life" that made the house a maze to walk though! I seriously consider cancelling the sitter and cleaning my house instead but then the need to get away from all this crazy won over and I went about picking up as much as possible in the few hours I had.
However, I'm pretty sure my sweet babysitter would have never judge me, however if she did its ok! Because in 15 years, I can only hope she will be blessed with a husband and 4 beautiful children. When she needs a break or even a date, she can totally call me ( I won't judge!). Or better yet, she can hire her own 15 year old babysitter and the cycle can start all over again!
In a land far, far away there was a teen age girl who was slightly hard up for cash (what teenager isn't?) and received a call from a neighbor who had 4 children. This sweet neighbor was begging said teen age girl to come over a babysit! Now, teenage girl wasn't thrilled but the need for cash won and she walked over.
The neighbor and her husband ran for the door and the teenager was in charge. She went to work getting supper for the kids and couldn't believe there was burnt Mac'n Cheese was on the stove! Who burns Mac'n Cheese! After feeding the kids, the next step was putting them all to bed. The house was a maze of clothes, toys, and random piles of stuff. The dog wouldn't stop barking and the kids seemed to be boucing off the walls.
After the kids had been settled down to bed, the dog let back in which stopped the barking (but lead to a dog running everywhere!) the teenager said the following things:
1. Who in their right mind would have a kid, let alone 4 kids!!
2. Her house would never be this messy!
3. She would never have a dog!
4. She would never burn such a simple meal Mac'n Cheese
And then this little teenager settled on the sofa reading a book and passing the hours until midnight.
Now, let's fast forward 15 years, I will reveal said teenager is me. It had been nearly year since my husband and I had a real date (shopping for Christmas presents and Easter baskets doesn't count!). There was this really cool movie out called "Mom's Night Out" and I really wanted to see it! I called our teenage sitter begging her to come over and watch the kids! And then that is when deja vu hit me!!
See, I had 4 kids running wild through the house, 1 extremely ill behaved dog, and while begging the sitter to come I may have burnt lunch (which wasn't Mac'n Cheese but it would have been total poetic justice if I had!)
Also my sideboard may have looked like this:
And it goes without saying the piles of clothes, toys, and other "life" that made the house a maze to walk though! I seriously consider cancelling the sitter and cleaning my house instead but then the need to get away from all this crazy won over and I went about picking up as much as possible in the few hours I had.
However, I'm pretty sure my sweet babysitter would have never judge me, however if she did its ok! Because in 15 years, I can only hope she will be blessed with a husband and 4 beautiful children. When she needs a break or even a date, she can totally call me ( I won't judge!). Or better yet, she can hire her own 15 year old babysitter and the cycle can start all over again!
Friday, January 2, 2015
New Year's Resoluations
So with ringing in 2015 I've decided to put forth some positive resolutions for the year:
1. I want to run a 10k and a 15k
I've got a 5k under my belt and I've been working on taking off baby weight. Having my sights on that milage will keep me moving in the right direction. Plus my friend challenged me to 600 miles for the year!!
2. Get back into writing
I worked on my school newspaper in high school and this turned into a paying gig in college. However, I wasn't able to get my foot in the door outside of college. Then babies came, life happened, so I'm hoping this blog will be a good outlet for writing again.
3. Do 52 Week Organizational Challenge for homeschooling
I came across this challenge over at Psyowith6 and it really caught my interest. While I think I may have a good handle on some of the topics, it gives excellent suggestions to other. My plan is do a check in post called "Resolution Friday" to monitor my progress on this week challenge. If your interested check it out:
http://www.psychowith6.com/52-week-get-organized-homeschool-challenge/#sthash.gpDY83iW.dpbs
4. Participate in the Rudolf Club (http://christmas.organizedhome.com/rudolph-club)
This year the holidays REALLY came up fast on me! Advent and Christmas seasons are truly one of my favorite times of the year. I liked the idea of taking the 25th of each month a checking off a few Christmas tasks that came be done ahead of time. However, I'm going to do my own list as starting my Christmas list in February isn't really my cup of tea!
5. Continuing to de-clutter our house!
It seems with 6 people in a small house our stuff just seems to grow!! To make things more manageable de-cluttering and being very conscience of what we bring into our house needs to keep to the top of list!
There you have it folks - something for me, something for our homeschool, something to help keep me sane (working on Christmas!) and something for our home.
Its gonna be a great year, I can just feel it!
1. I want to run a 10k and a 15k
I've got a 5k under my belt and I've been working on taking off baby weight. Having my sights on that milage will keep me moving in the right direction. Plus my friend challenged me to 600 miles for the year!!
2. Get back into writing
I worked on my school newspaper in high school and this turned into a paying gig in college. However, I wasn't able to get my foot in the door outside of college. Then babies came, life happened, so I'm hoping this blog will be a good outlet for writing again.
3. Do 52 Week Organizational Challenge for homeschooling
I came across this challenge over at Psyowith6 and it really caught my interest. While I think I may have a good handle on some of the topics, it gives excellent suggestions to other. My plan is do a check in post called "Resolution Friday" to monitor my progress on this week challenge. If your interested check it out:
http://www.psychowith6.com/52-week-get-organized-homeschool-challenge/#sthash.gpDY83iW.dpbs
4. Participate in the Rudolf Club (http://christmas.organizedhome.com/rudolph-club)
This year the holidays REALLY came up fast on me! Advent and Christmas seasons are truly one of my favorite times of the year. I liked the idea of taking the 25th of each month a checking off a few Christmas tasks that came be done ahead of time. However, I'm going to do my own list as starting my Christmas list in February isn't really my cup of tea!
5. Continuing to de-clutter our house!
It seems with 6 people in a small house our stuff just seems to grow!! To make things more manageable de-cluttering and being very conscience of what we bring into our house needs to keep to the top of list!
There you have it folks - something for me, something for our homeschool, something to help keep me sane (working on Christmas!) and something for our home.
Its gonna be a great year, I can just feel it!
Thursday, January 1, 2015
Happy New Year!!
And a blog is born....
Who am I?
Well I'm a wife, mom to 4 kiddos (the boy, the princess, tinkerbell, and baby) , and we homeschool our kiddos.
While some may call me a Stay At Home Mom - I prefer the title of Domestic Engineer. That title is far more fitting to what I do every day than Stay at Home Mom.
This blog is gonna be a little bit of everything - homeschooling, organizing, cooking, and what is on my mind.
Forgive the grammar errors, I run on little sleep and frequently interpreted!
Who am I?
Well I'm a wife, mom to 4 kiddos (the boy, the princess, tinkerbell, and baby) , and we homeschool our kiddos.
While some may call me a Stay At Home Mom - I prefer the title of Domestic Engineer. That title is far more fitting to what I do every day than Stay at Home Mom.
This blog is gonna be a little bit of everything - homeschooling, organizing, cooking, and what is on my mind.
Forgive the grammar errors, I run on little sleep and frequently interpreted!
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